Mia's first snow day!! She loved it, it was sooo adorable to see her look at the snow fall on her face, she would put her hands out to touch it, it was too cute. I pray it snows again soon so that we can put a snowsuit on her and stick her in the snow.
Today was a very frustrating day for me. I so get frustrated with my own "sex". I don't understand how women can be so competitive, rude, and just hurtful. When i was about to have Mia, I knew that i had to have a c section. It wasn't something i had sought out, it was something that was for the best health for my daughter and I. My doctor was so scared to tell us that we needed a c section because of all the bad rap out there with doctors and c sections. Well i went into labor two days before the c section was scheduled, and pretty much proved to the doctor that there was no way i would have delivered her vaginally. WE both could have died if i had. And my sister in law's baby's cord was wrapped around his head, and if they didn't do a c section, he could have died. But i get comments like, your baby will be so unhealthy because of a c section, there's less bonding, and even, "I had to go through more pain and i get the "gold metal" for having the baby vaginally". OH my goodness, why do women compete over everything, let alone how we give birth to our baby's? Shouldn't we just be thankful God have us a miracle baby, and that we have medicine that delivers the baby safely and without killing us!!! SOrry, it was just a bad day today with comments like that. All I can say is i dont care how i had to get Mia out, i got her safely and there's nothing wrong with her, thank the Lord!
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unfortunately Kristin, some women ARE JUST PLAIN AND SIMPLE INSECURE, otherwise they won't say anything dumb like, that also goes for men too. i had c section with my baby and thank the Lord is not unhealthy and she and i have a fun bonding as mother and daughter. who ever told you whatever, is totally has nothing going well in her life... so she has to say something like to you so she can feel good about herself. i'll pray for her salvation so she can stop being miserable:)
anyhow, you can give me the rest of the photos when you have the chance to stop by at work:)
hugs,
Love
Hi Kristin! Don't listen to all that, it's just stuff to sidetrack you and doesn't matter what other people think anyway! What matters is what God knows, always absolutely true. I'm so glad you are enjoying being a mama. Blessing, responsibility, and frustration all rolled into one! What a wonderful little one you have.
KB - I guess as women we get the privilege of being fed up with them. I get so frustrated at this same thing and the worst part is I get competitive over stupid things too. Sometimes I just hang my head in shame at being a woman!
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